Wednesday, July 21, 2010

A Dating Rule?

As a woman, how would you react if you heard a man say, “She is a woman, she should offer to cook me meals.” It would not sit too well with any of us I think. In the past, we accepted certain roles: men were the hunter/gatherers or the bread winners while women stayed home to take care of the cooking and the children. But these days, both men and women work, so naturally the old roles have to be adjusted. Cooking and taking care of the kids should be shared, if the bread-winning is shared. Agreed?

Then how would you react to this statement made by women, “He is a guy, he should pay or offer to pay when he takes me out on a date!” Isn’t it also true that since both men and women work and earn money, it is only fair that both should be expected to split a bill even if it is a first date? If we agree that the old roles are changing, why do we women keep holding on to this one? What do you think ladies;) ?

1 Comments:

Blogger Unknown said...

i am one of meesha's friend and i happen to come across your site!
i agree with you. men, women, bottom line is we are all humans. i had a "feminist" sneer at me when i made a plate for my husband and gave it to him. she said..do not let SERVE him. well, my point to her..i serve him and he serves me. we are two people who love, care and serve each other. he doesn't cook..but that is because i am better at it than he is. i have never once taken the garbage out.. oh wait.. i can do that too if i want : p my point is..if you look at the other gender as another human..maybe the process of dating gets more simple and everyone can live happily after.. joking!

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